Everywhere around you, there are interesting people ready to talk to you, have fun with you, whatever you want. As a reasonably pretty girl, I find that as long as you don't put out immediately the boys that are worth it take the time to get to know you, and the shallow losers get weeded out. I don't know what to do about it. [–]brassneck 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children). I will say this about it. It seems that age and status were the main characteristics mayans looked for in a sacrifice, they would sacrifice warriors and children mostly. I can relate to this. [–]Rand0mNZ 8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago (5 children). Ain't nothing wrong with initiating. Now I am comfortably average. (I was told this by a male friend later in college. [–]NoDownvotesPlease 50 points51 points52 points 9 years ago (2 children). Then all of a sudden even though I'm in a committed 2 year long relationship, he decides to ask me out. Your wife sounds awesome. My ex recently got a new girlfriend and my mom showed a co-worker the picture of his new girlfriend. [–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (3 children). Why be in a relationship and put so much effort for something, when around every corner there is some new interesting stranger offering something new. Stop overthinking things. [–]J973 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children). It helps you get over your insecurity by building your ego, but you have to be clever about it. And gay men are so goddamn aggressive. Im more of a nerd with a cat and i sit at home doing computer stuff and music stuff by myself and people are shocked to find this out because they just naturally think im actually cool, based on my looks which is no way to judge a man. I used to be a hit at the bars (back when I still went to bars) because I could get free drinks just by asking for them, and I’ve avoided arrest a few times when I probably shouldn’t have. ...unless you're a big huge off-putting weirdo or something... 'not the most flattering' lol Anything hotter and you'd break the camera. Actually, I would say that I'm more similar to Don Draper than Vincent Chase. ahh but you were assuming I was not ridiculously good looking, which I am, so I say he's right with absolute authority. I have been told I look like Cindy Crawford, Jessica Simpson, Kate Winslet, and a whole bunch of other really random celebs that don't look much like each other. For example, when it comes to income, in most lines of work it’s better to be smarter than more attractive (Judge et al., 2009). she's quite intelligent. I was a really cute kid, then BOOM! I consider myself to be pretty smart, no- really smart. [–]YodasDad 7 points8 points9 points 9 years ago* (11 children). I always make a habit of talking to the people around me because otherwise that 10 minutes before class starts is ridiculously boring. Rendered by PID 25467 on r2-app-0ab18ce9b5854ea0f at 2021-02-09 04:01:48.652437+00:00 running 83a2172 country code: US. First, I would like to say that being seen as dumb is bullshit. I often wonder what uber-attractive people think when they begin to lose their looks...when they're no longer the hottest person in the room or being hit on as much. I am not photogenic at all. Part of being pretty is smelling nice, so put on deodorant and/or antiperspirant after you shower each day. [–]huntwhales 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (0 children). The thing is that women are sometimes unfairly called "clingy." 5. I suffer from depression and various anxiety disorders so perhaps that makes me look bitchy/unapproachable. Wear clean clothes that aren’t wrinkly so you feel your best. It's a problem I had since I was a baby. I can also see that many times, men seem very nervous around me, which is entertaining to see and often I will ramp up my flirtiness just because the awkwardness is funny to see. My daughter is extraordinarily attractive. on the other side of things, the male friend got a scholarship to an american university, and nobody has trouble believing him. hey just cant believe how amazing you are, and you don't even do a thing for them trough all that. Teachers eat up everything you say. He's a great guy who works his ass off for everything he does and has. I'm pretty sure there's a lot more to life than being really, really ridiculously good looking. Or does being attractive make them confident? Everyone notices you anyway so if you use the attention to share some interesting thoughts peoples minds get blown. Hormones, and until about a year ago I wouldn't really classify myself as attractive (maybe tubby, potentially cute). Sometimes my more sociable friends and I would go out, and I would see a cute girl. I live in NYC, so I would get aggressively propositioned for sex on the subway, walking home from a bar, etc. more >>, Soliciting money, goods, services, or favours is not allowed. There was this one year where I had been training pretty hard (I was getting a new belt in karate) and not eating much (no job, my food budget was something like 10$ a week). On my other reddit account, I subscribe to r/foreveralone. He said so himself. What so many see as some excruciating process in their agonizing fear of ending up alone, you see as tons of ego boosts that you don't have to do shit for. [–]mauxly 16 points17 points18 points 9 years ago (15 children). *People hate you. The best relationships are the ones where you are dating your closest friend. Being nice to everyone and treating everyone like people generally means that it is reciprocated, and therefore you will become popular. They shouldn't be. Attractive people who look after themselves remain attractive their whole lives as far as I can see. [–]venuswasaflytrap 180Answer Link17 points18 points19 points 9 years ago (0 children). Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts more >>, Any post asking for advice should be generic and not specific to your situation alone. I met someone who sounds rather similar to you. It's much easier for me to make friends, despite all the fucked-upedness, but a lot of them end up being guys who only pretend to have platonic ideas. When i go out i know alot of people wherever i go and people remember my name and stuff and i have no memory of them. So I talk to this guy for a few months in class, he seems tolerable. Even if you are shy, your ego grows with all the compliments and attention and you start really loving it. It's great not to have to make a huge effort, or any, to be socially desired, at least by the opposite sex. I do think of myself as good-looking, but not to that extreme. I'd kill to be that confident. The Dating Nerd is a shadowy figure whose whereabouts and identifying details remain unknown. Clothes that smell and look good will make you look and feel better about yourself. Younger people want to be like you. No one can even be mad at him or jealous though. That the shitty treatment other people whined about was indeed true, and that just because I didn't experience it firsthand did not mean it wasn't a reality. [–]HatHatHatHat 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago* (1 child). Girls they like completely forget about them once they meet me; I've had friends treat me like shit in front of their girlfriends, as well as neglect to introduce me for fear of attracting them. I'm NEVER approached unless it is in the creepiest way possible. Dear Rachel, ... Actually, that last one pretty much terrifies me. As a slightly above average dude who can reach some of the upper levels if I try I can confirm some of this. I couldn’t even stand being in my moms house knowing she was there too so I got up and left. At the same time, most of the girls hated her. [–]zebrake2010 43 points44 points45 points 9 years ago (2 children), [–]KungFuHamster 53 points54 points55 points 9 years ago (1 child). Press J to jump to the feed. I am not "cute" nor "pretty" like Emma Watson, Hillary Duff, or Jessica Alba. Its ridiculously easy to manipulate people if you look good and have that look in your eyes. No text is allowed in the textbox. [–]DaysSpentDreaming 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (1 child), [–]notLOL 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (10 children), Foreveralone here. My whole social development and self love came from the fact I realized I'm becoming "that" beautiful. I was thinking the same thing. I want to go from being a 1 to a 10 and maybe write a book about how fucked up society is afterward. I try my hardest to grow some balls, and fumble through what very few would call a conversation, while the girl would just be staring at me. It's all incredibly interesting to me, since, of course, I feel like an ugly girl disquised in a hot girl's body. Omg great post. I just want you to be happy. [–]Militant_Penguin 49 points50 points51 points 9 years ago (9 children), [–]NyanCatForever 23 points24 points25 points 9 years ago (8 children). I try to counterbalance it with, "yes, and she's beautiful on the inside too." I remember when a friend of mine, who I met through a meetup group, later told me, "When I first met you, I thought, 'Oh, great, someone hotter than me. Mostly because of my pure hatred for that song. [–]Tasadar 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children). I'm glad we're friends." Can I - I just - this is driving me - dude, it's cash. [–]mechanate 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children). [–]sunshine60 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (7 children), [–]SchlickingToThis 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (3 children). But it also annoyed me, as I said I am kind of anti-social and don't really like people. It's hard to commit and I honestly saw no point in it. I won't like her,' (paraphrasing) but then I got to know you and you're actually pretty cool. I get out of tests assigments girls do my work for me its really nice. I was very handsome as a teenager and I'm very handsome now, but I had a few years in my 20s where I put on a lot of weight. However, looks alone are worth a lot in game so he is out gaming a lot of other guys without even trying. I mostly worked outside so I got a lot of sun. I got my teeth done at an early age so I always have to put up with people looking at my teeth when I'm talking instead of my eyes or instead of listening to me which can get annoying. In the article she says: "There are downsides to being pretty -- the main one being … People who don't know you, trust you. Probably she is not 'nice to people in general' not because she is a bad person, but because she will have become so used to people being nice to her without her needing to be nice to them first. I'm average, but I always had a great body. Turns out being pretty isn't all it's cracked up to be. I am married and sometimes I don't want to deal with male attention. It is an awesome post... but although you can feel sympathy for her "suffering", it still makes me think that the best life is the one where you are good-looking and then you die young, before realizing all that she did. "Too Pretty to Be a Lesbian" How "femmephobia" contributes to discrimination in LGBTQ+ communities. Appreciate and have fun with it as much as you can. 3. Apparently, I'm cold and "too pretty and perfect" to be approachable. [–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago* (2 children), I may have experienced both worlds. I used to get people thinking I was gay constantly. I told a girl it's impossible to just friendzone her. Same with me I work 9hr, 8am - 5pm days and when I get home I want to catch up on some of the TV I recorded and I end up laying there until about 1am and then I go to bed. I didn't know how to respond. Lucid dreamers of reddit, how did you learn about lucid dreaming, are there any tips you'd advise people that want to start, and are they actually as realistic as described? [–]Unicornmayo 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child). [–]RagingHardon 10 points11 points12 points 9 years ago (0 children), [–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 9 years ago (5 children). You can also wear perfume--many people have a signature scent they wear every day. On top of it, I was a smarty pants (borderline obnoxiously so) and was moved up a grade in primary school. It really makes me feel uncomfortable and like a woman sometimes. My looks are nice, but they take a backseat to making sure that I'm a good, kind, decent person. Seriously! She's also a mathematician who has worked for MDA and NASA but is currently working in a think-tank for developing new radar software. That was too much for me. TL;DR: Used to be obese; planning on going into amateur modeling (on the side, cuz I'm in grad school). Pretty much all clothing, hats, hairstyles, whatever suits me, I don't really have a set style because I can just do what I want in that regard. Well I actually went through phases. It's easy to cheat, and everyone forgives you anyway. The cons are that no one seems to believe me when I tell them. Unfilter. As a somewhat decent looking guy. It was quite the fascinating experience, because I am kind of antisocial and wasn't that popular as a kid. I'll tell you the only problem, even though I'm sure the problems other side faces are worse. So I can kinda tell what its like from both sides. 1. Beauty Beyond Binaries is a biweekly column about the intersection of beauty and identity on allure.com by writer, TV host, and activist Janet Mock.. They just agree and flirt, or dismiss without responding and flirt, even when I'm not trying to look good. Get an ad-free experience with special benefits, and directly support Reddit. Otherwise I wouldn't use/need it. I have learned people only like you to be one or the other. But always be careful to not wear too much. 10. When I was big, I had no problem striking up conversation with other women and making new friends. You like seeing lots of people, don't fear being alone and just go with a flow. If you're not a person who is able to mistake initial compatibility or fun you have for love, you end up being a constant "jerk". Wake up the next day go on reddit and see Skyrim posts and realise how much I wanted to play it the night before. You're too hot to approach. [–]your_MOTHERS_boner 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (2 children). Every single person has said "...but you're GORGEOUS..." when I tell them about the bullying I've experienced my whole life. Cash. The extent to which girls are bullied for being “too pretty” probably varies from place to place. Sad to say it, but I don't feel sorry for you that anyone you come onto will reciprocate, but no one comes onto you. Still want to do everything to her, [–]Changey 1160Answer Link115 points116 points117 points 9 years ago (11 children). This means I know what insecurity, jealousy, and envy feel like. That's the thing! [–]robreddity 34 points35 points36 points 9 years ago (1 child). However, he also said that he is lacking in social skills so he's not so good at the relating part of relationships. because I think I was fairly invisible until I dressed my curves and made up my face. [–][deleted] 28 points29 points30 points 9 years ago (5 children). I can get people trusting me as long as I'm not spewing shit that you'd have to be an idiot to believe. [–]cp5184 19 points20 points21 points 9 years ago (2 children). What's it like being extraordinarily attractive? Make a laundry schedule so that you always have a rotation of clean clothes ready to choose from. one (female) is a model, and the other is a good-looking guy. She appreciated the truthfulness. I am unafraid and confident, and I believe the combination of my brain and my face are to blame for this. It's really strange that people think being pretty/hot eliminates you as a target. Your friends get down to the tenth significant figure on hotness? Prejudged as possibly dumb. She has guys buying her drinks at clubs at 18. Being too nosy, drunk junk and Reddit or not. Oh, and I had one guy message me saying, near-verbatim: "(I really like your interests/line of work/research, etc., but...) I almost wish you were a little less attractive, so I'd actually feel like I have a shot with you." They kept hitting on me and try to give me their number. I used to work in a wealthy part of Los Angeles filled with aging housewives who seemingly couldn't let go of what they looked like when they were 25. As far as advantages I get over my friends, mostly free upgrades on meals and drinks, I find extra helpful people while shopping, and find bargaining in most instances far more beneficial. Use of this site constitutes acceptance of our User Agreement and Privacy Policy. At least you got something going on. more >>, [Serious] tagged posts are off-limits to jokes or irrelevant replies. Here is what my a guy friend of mine had to say about the friendzone: "A girl can friendzone a guy and completely forget that said guy is a potential fuck. It's a term that carries negative ideas. I counter your argument by claiming my own attractiveness exceeds his. could you specify? I'm just a nerdy looking dude in my twenties, and people (men and women) are relatively nice to me — but I'm pretty nice to people in general, so that might have something to do with it. I actually want to put on a lot more bulk so I can stop falling into this pretty twink category that they see me as. Farsir9k must be super hot! As for people of the same sex, yes, from the distance they may be jealous and prone to meanness. I have a pretty face, beautiful Zooey Deschanel-ish hair and a slightly shorter Christina Hendricks-ish figure. [–]EastenNinja 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (4 children). Kelly was (and still is) model gorgeous - 6' tall, thin, gorgeous eyes and hair, heck she even has pretty hands and fingernails! Being from Ireland that line didn't sound at all odd to me. Let them feel they are the dominant ones in the group and that you appreciate their advice etc. 6. For guys, no matter how long he is in the friendzone, the door is ALWAYS open." Don't seduce people, befriend them. Your partner complains and your huge ego gets instantly smaller and smaller (ego isn't confidence, as many mistake it for and it can oscillate like crazy). But, any intelligent person with some introspection will be able to work out these issues. I'm sure they were smoking hot in the mid-eighties, but I'd see a lot of fifty year old women with very obvious plastic surgery, and it was kind of depressing that they just couldn't age with a bit of grace. It effected her education. I've heard a couple of times that some of my worst female bullies were actually jealous of me.. Yeah, I have a friend like that. It's a lot harder to make friends and have a social life when you're unattractive and awkward. What do you think about Addison's story? Allow me to report my findings. Cons: cat calls, being bothered by drunk men in bars. Being unappealing but physically (height-wise) and intellectually intimidating can apparently lead smart/attractive guys to justify actively trying to fuck with your head in high school. I'm still an awkward turtle, still very socially anxious and self-conscious, and somehow now I actually end up intimidating guys and basically have to tell them straight up I like them because I know they'll be too insecure to act on their feelings otherwise. Your examples sound so familiar to how it was when we'd go to a bar or meet up with more people. My little Brother was a model for a short while, hes got the body of Adonis. I had zero to two close friends on average over the course of my high school education. [–]IbanezAndBeer 10 points11 points12 points 9 years ago (0 children). *Any intelligence or authority you have is automatically challenged because people don't want you to be attractive and smart, or in a position of power. you said you not white nor black but rather exotic. Maybe you can get a little bit closer to the line of stupid before they stop trusting you? I think they are intimidated and I'm very okay with that. I'm a very friendly person. That does not represent who I am. You get angry, why do you have to listen to that shit when other people would give everything just to be near you. [–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children), [–]Hooopy 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children). A redditor wrote something a little while ago. Gay guys are fucking aggressive. I think it makes it more difficult as a parent to teach basic values because she is getting rewarded for superficiality. This Disney hit does not involve Prince Charming coming to the rescue of a princess in distress. [–]discobanditt 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child). First of all, you get instant attention. We really appreciate it! It's statistics. They're probably too intimidated. It's actually kind of a pain in the ass right now because I don't want to date at all or even fuck randomly. Thank you for the support on Story Time Animated. What did a teacher do that made you automatically gain respect for them? [–]anonmedgrow 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children), You forgot "leave a good looking corpse. It's not the worst problem in the world, but that's my response to the question. Since it was an honor to be sacrificed to a god this seems logical, as only the best and most pure could have such a chance. It's cute to see men get all flustered because an attractive woman is flirting with them. I've always been an anti-social near-aspie. *I know for the time being (until my youth runs out) I will always be able to find someone to date. Some guys like that look and there aren't as many alt chicks about. It's true that confidence matters. I'm pretty sure there's a lot more to life than being really, really, ridiculously good looking. I also think that I scare a lot of people away, I have heard many a time how intimidating it was to come and approach me. Get out of tickets from cops. And then if you are intelligent, you get lifted on the level of some rare genius. I've gotten laid during my job as a Census Enumerator. 9. I don't know. In an honest effort to help these women I have come up with some tips and suggestions on how to deal with the crippling burden of being beautiful. How many women are there in the average 5 meter radius? I'm tempted to pretty much only trust gay guys' assessments of me in any regard anymore. You look skinny. Let me know what you thought of this video in the comments below! © 2021 reddit inc. All rights reserved. Thanks For Watching! If only I would cut my hair dress right! It helps with career advancement in many professions (not all, mind … Edit: On the other end, I was on OkCupid for a while, and I read all of their research on the research page while crafting my profile. And yes, I'm being completely honest with you, my manliness has gayed in their general direction. Insecurity is adorable. Had to use urban dictionary for that one. But surprisingly, he's been dating his middle school sweetheart for about 10 years now. First time post, and my heart is beating like a drum because I really identified with this thread but am wildly nervous about posting. Overall, it just makes life easier. [–]HatHatHatHat 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child). 7 Disappointing Truths About Being Beautiful | Thought Catalog The best way I've heard it put is men age like wine, women age like milk (not to say women can't age gracefully, but they generally don't become more attractive like men do). It's really easy with little things if you just look him or her directly in the eyes, and smile with your eyes. I once got a female manager to let me use an expired coupon (expired for a whole fucking year) to get a jacket 60% off at Urban Outfitters "because it looked so good on me". I'm not beautiful but my wife is. Maybe people assume you are nice because you look nice. I really don't take it personally---it's like a subjective social experiment. About sums it up. Now for the bad news about being beautiful. Everything is awesome in a beautiful package. Now who's the right one?! 4. Tendies? Girls are the same, too. I'm talking guys/girl throw themselves at you, you get special treatment, have as many options as you want. *A's in certain classes from creepy teachers and profs. I won't like her,' (paraphrasing) but then I got to know you and you're actually pretty cool. Why do I need to imagine that when I can just look in the mirror? I realize I sound like the vainest motherfucker ever, but my friends give me so much shit because they've been through it all. 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